......aku baru lepas tengok rancangan temubual DUKE di channel AXN Astro...rancangan ini adalah tentang lelaki...temubual yang membicarakan semuanya tentang lelaki...aku tertarik dengan permulaan perbincangan yang menyatakan sifat paling asas yang harus ada untuk mentakrifkan lelaki sejati atau real man ini ialah seorang lelaki itu perlu ada sifat 3P..Pencari Nafkah, Pelindung dan Pecinta..Pencari nafkah sifat yg paling asas iaitu mencari nafkah untuk memberi keluarganya makan,minum dan tempat tinggal....Pelindung pula ialah sifat wajib yg perlu ada iaitu seorang lelaki itu akan melindungi keluarganya dari sebarang ancaman...seterusnya ialah sifat Pecinta,sifat ini perlu untuk memenuhi kehendak asas manusia selain untuk meneruskan kesinambungan kejadian manusia itu......inilah sifat yang aku rasa akan mentakrifkan sifat lelaki sejati itu sejak zaman paleolitik hingga kezaman serba moden hari ini...
...............dalam rancangan itu juga..mereka menemubual orang ramai secara rawak tentang takrif lelaki sejati ini....ada yang menyatakan lelaki sejati ialah lelaki yang botak..ada yg kata lelaki sejati ialah lelaki yg tak pakai pelembab muka..ada yg kata lelaki sejati ialah lelaki yg berani memakai baju pink dan ada juga yang kata lelaki sejati ini kena ada bulu didada..hmmm...macam-macam lah...tetapi takrifan lelaki sejati itu sendiri subjektif dan terletak pada pahaman masing2....
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hmmm...bagi aku pula...A real man is one who shows respect to his Mother and Father(termasuklah mak dan ayah mertua). A real man treats his friends and family and strangers on the street with the same respect as well. A real man loves his children and wife and stays through the thick and the thin. A man that will never lift his hand to a woman's face(aku pantang dengan lelaki dayus yg pukul wanita ni). Who will treat her like a lady with dignity and respect always. Who shows her how much he truly cares and loves her by telling her and surprising her with flowers or love letter at work or home. Cooking dinner(sorry sayang if my masakan tak sodap..hehe) and telling her to just put your feet up honey and let me handle the dishes and putting the kids to bed(insyAllah dah ada anak nanti..bie buat ek.). A real man takes time to teach and show his kids the proper way to go about disputes and teaches them values in life. A real man teaches his children how to respect others and to be kind by example. And when in the presence of his wife, he shows them tenderness and compassion while holding her close. A real man will see someone in distress and offer to help. Real men seek and praise God with their wives and family. Real men do the best they can, they don't cheat, steal or lie to get their way. They are humble, honest and their heart's are soft with love and compassion. Real men can be gentle as a lamb with their wife, children, family and friends. And can be fierce as a lion with offenders. We are both protectors and lovers.......
..........i love you wifey....i just want to be your perfect husband sayang...
every time..every moment..i squeeze my brain work very hard..to give my very best to you sayang..and i promise you that i will love you forever....
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
di kala 10 min lagi nak balik keje..
we've always had a home..me and hubby
be it my hostel
or oncall room
or rumah mak kedah
or rumah mak rawang
now we have a house to call home
how nice sitting here in our living room blogging
today a patient of mine went berserk
he grabbed one of my housemen from behind threatening to hurt her
thennnnnn boss and a male dr and a male nurse came to the rescue
male dr was punched
boss get the patient's throat..bukan cekik die..tekan je kerongkong patient tu
he was pinned down
ikat kaki tangan
selamatttttt
berpeluh saye...
jantung dah jatuh ke lantai agaknye
lup dup lup dup
boss sengih2 kate...wahhhhh jantung saya manyak laju
boss ku chinese yg cumil
seb baik drama tu sebabak je
boleh balik kul 5 arini =D
be it my hostel
or oncall room
or rumah mak kedah
or rumah mak rawang
now we have a house to call home
how nice sitting here in our living room blogging
today a patient of mine went berserk
he grabbed one of my housemen from behind threatening to hurt her
thennnnnn boss and a male dr and a male nurse came to the rescue
male dr was punched
boss get the patient's throat..bukan cekik die..tekan je kerongkong patient tu
he was pinned down
ikat kaki tangan
selamatttttt
berpeluh saye...
jantung dah jatuh ke lantai agaknye
lup dup lup dup
boss sengih2 kate...wahhhhh jantung saya manyak laju
boss ku chinese yg cumil
seb baik drama tu sebabak je
boleh balik kul 5 arini =D
Wednesday, May 06, 2009
Kau Doctor Hatiku
baru-baru ini…seorang timbalan menteri berbangsa hindu telah menangkap 2 orang doctor yang sedang berehat sambil membaca akhbar ketika hampir 30 orang pesakit sedang menunggu untuk dirawat…kemudian menteri berbangsa hindu itu mewar-warkan kesemua akhbar yg kejayaan dia menangkap doctor yg dikatakannya tidak bertanggungjawab itu..dan dengan bangganya doctor berbangsa India itu menyatakan akan lebih kerap akan menangkap doktor2 yg tak bertanggungjawab itu..lagak seorang hero yg hebat yg telah menangkap penjenayah…..
..huhhh…panas..panas..panas bila seseorang mengambil kesempatan untuk mengaut keuntungan politik dia…ni yg membuat aku bertambah racist dengan bangsa India ni…macam ada bidalan orang tua dulu..kalau jumpa hindu dan ular..ketuk hindu tu dulu baru ketuk ular…..mmg India ini..bangsa paling tak guna…kalau boleh dilistkan bangsa paling teruk..bangsa India ni maybe wajar diletakkan kedua selepas bangsa yahudi….
Nasiblah menteri kesihatan yang berbangsa cina itu lebih rasional…dia menjalankan siasatan terlebih dahulu…selepas siasatan..didapati kedua dua doctor tersebut merupakan doctor pelatih yg baru berehat selepas habis syift mereka..dan akhbar yg dibaca pula adalah akhbar lama yg ditinggalkan pesakit…aku ingin bertanya doctor berbangsa India itu…adakah doctor ini bukan manusia…adakah mereka ini ibarat robot..mereka dikerah keringat selanyaknya…doctor ini tidak layak untuk berehat…..??????
Huhh…sungguh dangkal dan bodoh sekali manusia yg di gelar yg berhormat ini…..itulah akibatnya jika kita mengangkat orang bodoh untuk menjadi pemimpin……
Kepada semua rakyat Malaysia juga….jangan jadi bodoh dan dunggu seperti ahli politik berbangsa India itu….menafikan semua pengorbanan doctor….mengambil kesempatan….aku percaya semua doctor berkhidmat dengan ikhlas tanpa mengharapkan apa2 kepada mereka….jarang sekali ada pesakit yg mengucapkan TERIMA KASIH kepada doctor diatas khidmat mereka…kalau ada yg mengucapkannya…ia adalah ungkapan pelik yg diterima….
…kita semua termasuk aku yg bukan dalam bidang perkhidmatan kesihatan ini perlu memahami dan menerangkan betapa besar pengorbanan doctor ini…..mereka juga manusia biasa…..keluar rumah pukul 7pagi dan bernasib baik dapat pulang kerumah esoknya seawall pukul 12tengahari besok tanpa kadangkala dapat sekelippun dapat melelapkan mata…makan pula belum tentu…….
….sesungguhnya apa yg mereka dapat…ditengking pesakit..dijerkah keluarga pesakit…dihumbam dengan cacian dan makian…..manakala para peguam pula sentiasa bersedia untuk menyaman doctor yg melakukan kesilapan seolah doctor ini manusia sempurna yg tak boleh melakukan kesilapan…..
….aku dah tak sanggup nak menulis lagi…andai semua orang didunia ini tidak menghargaimu lagi..percayalah doctor hatiku ini…suamimu ini akan mencintai dan menghargaimu di seluruh hidup ku…CHAIYUK SAYANG!!!!!!!BERUSAHA!!!!!!!
..huhhh…panas..panas..panas bila seseorang mengambil kesempatan untuk mengaut keuntungan politik dia…ni yg membuat aku bertambah racist dengan bangsa India ni…macam ada bidalan orang tua dulu..kalau jumpa hindu dan ular..ketuk hindu tu dulu baru ketuk ular…..mmg India ini..bangsa paling tak guna…kalau boleh dilistkan bangsa paling teruk..bangsa India ni maybe wajar diletakkan kedua selepas bangsa yahudi….
Nasiblah menteri kesihatan yang berbangsa cina itu lebih rasional…dia menjalankan siasatan terlebih dahulu…selepas siasatan..didapati kedua dua doctor tersebut merupakan doctor pelatih yg baru berehat selepas habis syift mereka..dan akhbar yg dibaca pula adalah akhbar lama yg ditinggalkan pesakit…aku ingin bertanya doctor berbangsa India itu…adakah doctor ini bukan manusia…adakah mereka ini ibarat robot..mereka dikerah keringat selanyaknya…doctor ini tidak layak untuk berehat…..??????
Huhh…sungguh dangkal dan bodoh sekali manusia yg di gelar yg berhormat ini…..itulah akibatnya jika kita mengangkat orang bodoh untuk menjadi pemimpin……
Kepada semua rakyat Malaysia juga….jangan jadi bodoh dan dunggu seperti ahli politik berbangsa India itu….menafikan semua pengorbanan doctor….mengambil kesempatan….aku percaya semua doctor berkhidmat dengan ikhlas tanpa mengharapkan apa2 kepada mereka….jarang sekali ada pesakit yg mengucapkan TERIMA KASIH kepada doctor diatas khidmat mereka…kalau ada yg mengucapkannya…ia adalah ungkapan pelik yg diterima….
…kita semua termasuk aku yg bukan dalam bidang perkhidmatan kesihatan ini perlu memahami dan menerangkan betapa besar pengorbanan doctor ini…..mereka juga manusia biasa…..keluar rumah pukul 7pagi dan bernasib baik dapat pulang kerumah esoknya seawall pukul 12tengahari besok tanpa kadangkala dapat sekelippun dapat melelapkan mata…makan pula belum tentu…….
….sesungguhnya apa yg mereka dapat…ditengking pesakit..dijerkah keluarga pesakit…dihumbam dengan cacian dan makian…..manakala para peguam pula sentiasa bersedia untuk menyaman doctor yg melakukan kesilapan seolah doctor ini manusia sempurna yg tak boleh melakukan kesilapan…..
….aku dah tak sanggup nak menulis lagi…andai semua orang didunia ini tidak menghargaimu lagi..percayalah doctor hatiku ini…suamimu ini akan mencintai dan menghargaimu di seluruh hidup ku…CHAIYUK SAYANG!!!!!!!BERUSAHA!!!!!!!
ku rayu rahmatMu
Tanggal 2hb mei iaitu selepas sehari hari pekerja..memang hari sabtu ini tampak biasa…tak lebih sebagai hari sabtu yg saling ulang mengulangi…tapi bagi aku bersama isteriku..hari sabtu kali ini…iaitu hari sabtu 2hb pada tahun 2009 ini merupakan hari paling bermakna dan istimewa dalam hidup kami berdua….
Hari tersebut merupakan hari pertama secara rasminya kami berpindah kerumah baru…pada hari itu segala perancangan kami untuk mengadakan majlis kenduri doa selmat dan tahlil telah berjaya diadakan setelah beberapa bulan merancang dan kadangkala ada krisis pendapat..hehehe…tetapi Alhamdulilah semua itu telah mematangkan kami dan menjadikan kami bertambah erat….i love you sayang..
Alhamdulilah pada hari tersebut iaitu pada lepas solat isyak…bacaan yassin dan doa selamat telah selamat diaadakan..majlis itu diketuai oleh seorg ustaz dari alor setar iaitu rakan kepada pak ngah ku…majlis ini tidaklah diadakan besar besaran..seperti permintaan isteriku..biarlah diadakan secara bersederhana….
Lebih kurang 50 tetamu yang hadir dan hampir kesemuanya sedara kami serta rakan karib…dengan menu nasi minyak,ayam berempah,dalca,ikan masak kicap dan udang galah…Alhamdulilah kedai laris..hehehe
Paling istimewa kehadiran keluarga mertuaku dari selangor dan ayah ibuku….
Sesungguhnya InsyAllah..akan kami adakan majlis seperti ini lagi….moga Allah merahmati dan melindungi kami berdua..Aminnnn
Hari tersebut merupakan hari pertama secara rasminya kami berpindah kerumah baru…pada hari itu segala perancangan kami untuk mengadakan majlis kenduri doa selmat dan tahlil telah berjaya diadakan setelah beberapa bulan merancang dan kadangkala ada krisis pendapat..hehehe…tetapi Alhamdulilah semua itu telah mematangkan kami dan menjadikan kami bertambah erat….i love you sayang..
Alhamdulilah pada hari tersebut iaitu pada lepas solat isyak…bacaan yassin dan doa selamat telah selamat diaadakan..majlis itu diketuai oleh seorg ustaz dari alor setar iaitu rakan kepada pak ngah ku…majlis ini tidaklah diadakan besar besaran..seperti permintaan isteriku..biarlah diadakan secara bersederhana….
Lebih kurang 50 tetamu yang hadir dan hampir kesemuanya sedara kami serta rakan karib…dengan menu nasi minyak,ayam berempah,dalca,ikan masak kicap dan udang galah…Alhamdulilah kedai laris..hehehe
Paling istimewa kehadiran keluarga mertuaku dari selangor dan ayah ibuku….
Sesungguhnya InsyAllah..akan kami adakan majlis seperti ini lagi….moga Allah merahmati dan melindungi kami berdua..Aminnnn
terasa di fitnah
for some reasons today is Doctors' 'kutuk day'..im in the profession so i just cant help to feel defensive
few days back or was it weeks back..one particular dr spilled out his/her heart's contents to the media..hubby asked me to have a look at it but i didnt..coz i had a preety good idea what he would be talking about..why he wrote to the press?i supposed it was a feeble attempt to give a peek to others into our lives as goverment's servant.believe me..in the settings where im labouring now.. our daily lives i.e medical officers's, wouldnt differ much from his
and our supposedly big boss's public reply would be, i can say IGNORANCE almost idiotic..at its best.mine and my colleagues reaction's upon reading the paper was.. smirking at each other and resumed to finish the emergency op in the OT.
my prayer everyday as i walk into the hospital would be..Ya Allah,please dont let anybody be ill today.Why?so that i can sit properly during my lunch instead of stuffing in food into my throat while running fr one ward to another.so that my whitecoat will be sauce-free if not blood-free.
our satisfaction as doctors when working would be..when the wards and clinics are empty (and mind you it never happens..not even close..the no's increasing exponentially).or when a bed's occupant is a new face the next day..because it means another patient is already well and now rightfully at home with their loved ones...even when we are not.ironically however the public think we doctors are out there to cause harm,it is common phenomena for many to send their bedridden old men for us to care for in the festive seasons,even Hari Kebangsaan.After they are done berhari raya or Gong Xi Fa Cai or Deepavali or Berhari Natal,we have to beg them to come and fetch their pitiful mom/dad/wife/husband/unmarried aunt etc etc
if some of you are dreaming to fill your children's ideals to become a medical personnel against their will..i beg you to stop.it would be unfair for them if they are not whole hearted in venturing down this path.it would be tough on you too as it is tough for spouses and families of many a doctor.the price is high once u are in..so you must be prepared to pay.
all the complaints from public is a good sign.It is evidence of increased awareness pertaining to their wellbeing and their rights.We see more patients in the hospital everyday simply because more of our people are educated and concerned enough to seek medical treatment.It shows that the nation is moving forward,in the right direction.Hopefully the heat of 'kutuking' and discussing how evil and lazy the doctors are will get the Ministry of Health on their feet,to correct the loopholes in the service and to reduce our limitations
some doctors sucks.no doubt about it.the others dont ask anything from our patients,just give us a break and let us do our job in peace.if we doze off in the clinic after a bad call last night, just laugh and wake us up.dont worry,we're just human,we dont bite =D
*op=operation/surgery
*OT-operation theater
*call-the day when u have to work 28-36 hours (depending on departments)
few days back or was it weeks back..one particular dr spilled out his/her heart's contents to the media..hubby asked me to have a look at it but i didnt..coz i had a preety good idea what he would be talking about..why he wrote to the press?i supposed it was a feeble attempt to give a peek to others into our lives as goverment's servant.believe me..in the settings where im labouring now.. our daily lives i.e medical officers's, wouldnt differ much from his
and our supposedly big boss's public reply would be, i can say IGNORANCE almost idiotic..at its best.mine and my colleagues reaction's upon reading the paper was.. smirking at each other and resumed to finish the emergency op in the OT.
my prayer everyday as i walk into the hospital would be..Ya Allah,please dont let anybody be ill today.Why?so that i can sit properly during my lunch instead of stuffing in food into my throat while running fr one ward to another.so that my whitecoat will be sauce-free if not blood-free.
our satisfaction as doctors when working would be..when the wards and clinics are empty (and mind you it never happens..not even close..the no's increasing exponentially).or when a bed's occupant is a new face the next day..because it means another patient is already well and now rightfully at home with their loved ones...even when we are not.ironically however the public think we doctors are out there to cause harm,it is common phenomena for many to send their bedridden old men for us to care for in the festive seasons,even Hari Kebangsaan.After they are done berhari raya or Gong Xi Fa Cai or Deepavali or Berhari Natal,we have to beg them to come and fetch their pitiful mom/dad/wife/husband/unmarried aunt etc etc
if some of you are dreaming to fill your children's ideals to become a medical personnel against their will..i beg you to stop.it would be unfair for them if they are not whole hearted in venturing down this path.it would be tough on you too as it is tough for spouses and families of many a doctor.the price is high once u are in..so you must be prepared to pay.
all the complaints from public is a good sign.It is evidence of increased awareness pertaining to their wellbeing and their rights.We see more patients in the hospital everyday simply because more of our people are educated and concerned enough to seek medical treatment.It shows that the nation is moving forward,in the right direction.Hopefully the heat of 'kutuking' and discussing how evil and lazy the doctors are will get the Ministry of Health on their feet,to correct the loopholes in the service and to reduce our limitations
some doctors sucks.no doubt about it.the others dont ask anything from our patients,just give us a break and let us do our job in peace.if we doze off in the clinic after a bad call last night, just laugh and wake us up.dont worry,we're just human,we dont bite =D
*op=operation/surgery
*OT-operation theater
*call-the day when u have to work 28-36 hours (depending on departments)
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